Wednesday, April 7, 2010

I Am Amazed

Every time I get on this blog and see a comment from a reader thanking me for it, I am amazed.

I have never seen myself as any great writer. In fact, I have often lamented to my daughter and my husband that I wish I had the gift of expression that they do. My husband writes wonderfully, with lots of humor and imaginative material. My daughter writes prose and poetry, the like of which brings me to tears, it is so incredibly moving. When comparing myself to them I seem a piddly writer at best.

I read once somewhere that an author should write about what they know or would love to know about. I am assuming that if you love it than the research will be done more completely and with more joy than trying to learn about something you just cannot stomach. Makes sense. So, I guess writing about my Army training and career set me off on this path of writing about something I have experienced. Enjoyed. And know a little something about. This meets all requirements as far as I can tell.

I am, at heart, an optimistic person. I have not always been but that is what happens when you meet the love of your life, get a life and then decide that life is good, regardless. Don't get me wrong, there are definitely trials - one I am going through right now is the process of trying to get the love of my life over here to Korea. The process itself is not hard but the people processing it are less than... well, less than. It is a depressing process. However, the Soldier's Creed plainly states that "I will never quit" and I won't. I may complain - loudly - but I will not stop trying. This is good I think when serving your country requires great sacrifices from both you and your loved ones.

Today as I was contemplating who I could get angry with, without losing my rank, a pheasant strut by outside my office. A pheasant! Out for a leisurely stroll, relaxed as could be. I thought to myself that since I had joined the Army I had seen wonderful things (like a sunrise - LOL! - anyone who knows me knows how I detest mornings...) and experienced wondrous things (like my body actually doing some pretty intense physical exercise!)... so, would getting angry really accomplish anything in the long run? No. It will just give me an ulcer. And I have enough issues.

May God bless you and show you wondrous things! And may you focus your eyes and see.


  1. I do enjoy when you are able to write of "what you know and have experienced". After following the "adventures" of my three sons through the Army/Air Force, it is my opinion that the people put in charge of "paper work and paper trails" are totally clueless. Things that should have priority don't get done, things that should get done because there are time restrictions don't and that there is no one to follow up except the person that needs that paper work completed! As a parent it saddened me to know that some of the paper work that should have been done to give my sons awards were never completed and they just let it go and chocked it up to "they just don't really care"...BUT I DO! Hope your paper work gets through the right channels and that your husband joins you in a timely fashion!

  2. You are so awesome DeLa!!!! Just put your faith in God and he will get Dave to you!!!!! And then he will get on your nerves and you will be wondering why the hell you were in such a hurry to get him there!!! LOL :))))))

    Love you and hope that we can all meet someday when you get back to the states!!!!!

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  4. Dela, I'm hoping your dream is closer to becoming a reality....
    may your day be joy-filled,

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